Connor and Audrey’s Bellingham wedding embodies so much of what resonates with me at weddings. Deep emotional responses to the moments of the day. Authentic smiles, not the learned school-picture-day business we all offer most cameras. Great dancing. Personal connections. Wearing her grandmother’s gloves. Faith, coupled with excitement for what could be. Boys making bad decision and sinking on a dock 😉  She works at a food bank. He nervously switched legs before the first look. She hugged the kids she nannies like they were her own. He danced with reckless abandon. The bridesmaid trying to give away the bouquet, apparently uncomfortable with the marital implications. There were so many honest moments, but these three are my favorites.

1) Near Bellingham, there is a rock that people often paint with messages for special events. I love bookends at weddings. I want a good starting image, and a nice ending image to finish the story. Sometimes I get better bookends than others, but it is my goal. A couple of the bridesmaids called me as I drove up from Oregon and tipped me off that they did some work on the rock, and I thought the rock painted by Audrey and her girls was perfect. The morning of the wedding I drove out to the rock, which was back out the highway, very much not on my way, but I felt like I NEEDED that shot to start it off right. So I drove. And I saw nothing. I looped around again. I saw nothing. I called a certain bridesmaid whose wedding I am doing this summer and got some really poor directions (assigning blame! 🙂 ) and a description of the colors, etc. Nothing. One more pass is all I had time for before I had to head back into town for the getting ready shots, and then I saw it. The purple had been covered up already. I had to laugh… all that effort for a picture of someone else’s rock 🙂 Perfect. (props to bridesmaid Grace for the shots of the rock pre-Justin)

2) Audrey’s mother, Judy, is a florist, and has made zillions of bouquets and boutonnieres, and I am sure she cannot count the amount of times she has pinned  boutonniere on a groom. On this particular day, she got to pin one onto her new family member. “Of all the boutonnieres I have put on before, I think this one is my favorite.”

3) After the ceremony Audrey and Connor’s recessional took them up stairs to an open area where she absolutely nailed the perfect “I just got married and I am so happy I will now cry” moment. An all-time favorite for me, and it was enough for me to get teary, too.

Now, Audrey and her roommates have been in front of my camera before, for a personal project that was just for funsies. It’s a photogenic bunch, and although the cast of roommates has evolved, I wanted to include a couple here because I have always loved the images, and it was the first time I met Audrey. By the way, all the dresses were from Goodwill, or Value Village, and if memory serves me.. none of the girls spent more than $10.

Also, check out Audrey and Connor’s engagement session by one of the bridesmaids, my homegirl Tori, while they were on a road trip.

Much love for Audrey and Connor having me.



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  • Mike Olbinski - You killed it Jay…love these so much.

  • Glen and Fiona Photographers - Amazemirizing. It’s all awesome, but the ‘tear’ shots of the bride.. gold!

  • benj haisch - so much goodness.

  • Wyn Wiley - so much beauty.

  • paolo mezzera - this wedding is really amazing! the bride is wonderful, funny, an excellent model.
    a lot of fun in your pics, congratulations!

  • Tara Leigh Nelson - homie… you have such a gift. that bnw of the couple with her looking to camera. gut punch gorgeous. I mean geez.

  • Mariah Gale - Seriously. Saw these this morning and was completely blown away.

  • Amanda K Rigiero - WOW….no words for how AMAZING this is. You ROCK.

  • Jane in the Woods Photographie - Love her gloves! And her shoes! I wore the same ones 🙂 The photos are so full of life, they are gorgeous.

  • John Gaidosh - Jay – your work makes me want to know everyone you take a photo of. Cheers to you my friend.

  • Meg Manion Silliker - you have such a way of capturing every emotion for all of us to swoon over. so many stunning images. the b+w of the b+g running away…..flawless.

  • John Gaidosh - Also, I hope I’m your first friend on the new myspace.

  • Jay Eads - i don’t see you on there?!

  • mercedes - Unbelievably sweet, beautiful wedding. That last one of them running off and her feet barely hit the ground? Love.

  • lydia {ever ours} - loving it…all the emotions, the love, everything.

  • ralph - Every time I think you can’t out do what you’ve done before, you go ahead and do it. These are incredible Jay. The shot of the couple just after the ceremony, with the tear down her cheek. Gotta be one of my all time faves. Made me a bit teary-eyed, I’m sayin’ it out loud. 🙂

    Bravo my friend.

  • Jay Eads - goodness, @[643545987:2048:Tara] . i kind of couldn’t go wrong with the subjects 🙂 thanks!!! you’re a pretty amazing bride, yourself! @[100003786901784:2048:Mariah] i wish we could have chatted more at the wedding.

    @[1153822912:2048:Amanda] – thanks, birthday girl!!!!

  • Jay Eads - thanks homie. kill it with @[386050065267:274:Macklemore] today… i’m excited for you, so glad it worked out!

  • Jay Eads - pretty much the best compliment ever. thanks @[1442688728:2048:Meg] so much

  • Jay Eads - also… i couldn’t ask for higher praise, man. “your work makes me want to know everyone you take a photo of. “

  • Jay Eads - thanks homie!

  • Jay Eads - i loved her entire ensemble… so classy. and grandma’s gloves? are you kidding me!?!?!?

  • Jay Eads - yeah… i cried when she cried. 99% because i was so happy for her… 1% because i knew i had just taken my favorite shot of the day. hahaha.

  • jordan voth - So good, Jay! Love this entire set, well done.